October 21, 2008

In Memory of Reef, Australian Shepherd

Reef, Australian Shepherd oil pastel portrait by Susan Donley

When my Aunt Anita heard that her brother and sister-in-law (my Uncle Bill and Aunt Hazel) had lost their dear old dog Reef, an Australian Shepherd, she wasted no time contacting me. She and her kids decided to go together to commission a portrait of this special family member to comfort the grieving human companions he left behind.

Thus began an interstate race and conspiracy to commit art! Anita and Melinda from Oklahoma City planned to hand-deliver the portrait to Bill and Hazel in Santa Barbara, California on October 1. It was mid-September and I am in Pennsylvania. Neither of us had photos of Reef, so Anita let Hazel in on the secret and enlisted her to sneak some photos into the mail to me. First challenge met! In light of Reef’s beautiful coloring — a tri-color red — we decided oil pastel was the medium of choice.

I worked quickly, sending scans to Anita and Hazel along the way to make sure I had captured Reef’s likeness, especially his coloring (always a challenge, since every photo of any pet or person seems to show different coloring). When it was done, Anita and I decided to send it directly to California (to Hazel’s office to maintain the surprise for Bill, but with strict instructions forbidding her to open it) to make sure it arrived at the same time Anita and Melinda arrived.

I’m told the great unveiling — a complete surprise for Bill — was an emotional time of remembering Reef, celebrating his life while mourning his loss. I wish I had been there, but felt blessed to be part of this special gift of consolation.

See Reef up-close on his portrait page. Roll your mouse over Reef’s portrait on this page to see an enlarged detail.

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That is an interesting story, i always like to work on a picture i am emotionally involved with, no doubt you were with this one. Fine work as always, my friend

;)

Comment by Johny Day — October 22, 2008 @ 12:22 am

Love the portrait of Reef. We never knew him but I am sure it was our loss.

We know how hard it is to lose a much loved pet, but having this portrait will be a wonderful remimder of how precious he was.

We sure do enjoy our portrait of Kitty (I am looking at it now on the wall).

Comment by Gene and Mary Lou — October 27, 2008 @ 10:20 am

For years I told my wife Hazel and friends that I wish there was a “Bank of Days” where we could withdraw some of our time on this earth and give it to others. That thought was due to REEF, our beautiful miniature Australian Shepard (who’s spirit is so brilliantly captured by Sue’s painting.)

REEF was grace in every sense of the word and lent grace to all those fortunate enough to know him. REEF’s capacity to enjoy everthing around him prompted me to think that he deserved far more time on this precious earth than what he would be allowed. And because he held life in such reverence and savored it on a visceral level, I would have made a withdrawal from my “bank of days” for REEF.

REEF re-educated us about the things that truly matter in life. He had a routine and he was going to keep it. Daybreak walks in lovely parks in Santa Barbara, and of course, we packed plenty of treats (I swear he knew how many I had). He would actually notice a flower that had bloomed over night and delighted in it’s fragrance. When he ran down the beach, sun bright on his coat, salt spray in his face, embraced by the Pacific breeze, I knew he as an angel flying close to the ground. He was here not only to teach but to give comfort when it was needed and to give love until he took his last breath.

Lest you get the impression REEF was solely art in motion, I have to say that he had a playfulness and sense of humor that made him a joy to be around. He was also smarter than we were and was not beyond using that intelligence in self-serving ways, particularly where food and games were concerned.

Shepard that he was, he got a great kick out of herding beach joggers into the ocean. While REEF saw it as great sport, and the joggers indulged him, I’m not sure they had as much fun as he did. He was known to accidentally miss the ball when we played on the deck so it dropped down to the backyard. We’d have to go outside and get it, checking everything out in the yard to ensure no one had encroached on his territory.

REEF was a ‘gift’ beyond measure and had a profound impact on our lives. He will be in our heart forever. We are so grateful that Sue was able to portray his spirit and goodness and appreciate our family members for making it possible. Peace, Hazel and Bill

Comment by Hazel & Bill Garlock — October 31, 2008 @ 6:12 pm

Touching and very well done….we all know how special Reef Dog is – especially to Bill and Hazel. Hopefully they can deal with the loss in due time. Your efforts and talent are appreciated by all. What a fabulous portrait

Comment by Allan Garlock — November 1, 2008 @ 2:55 pm

Reef was a sophisticated campanion (as you can see from the beautiful portrait) who offered pure love to his people. I will always remember BillGar telling me, “A (great) dog is someone who loves YOU more than you love yourself.” How true. I share in Bill & Hazel’s grief, as I too lost my cat of 19-years, then my baby Shep/Husky girl Sophie, then my step-dad, Carl, then my little Aussie boy, Dundee, all in 24 months.

Until you’ve felt those depths of sorrow, it’s impossible to understand or sympathize. To this day, I have dreams of Sophie running with me, kissing me, and, above all else, I take delight in remembering the way she would sit facing a western sunset and seem to have an otherwordly, highly-intelligent peacefulness in her gaze.

To this point, Reef lives on in your hearts, your thoughts, your dreams. (As Nabokov wrote): “Speak, Memory!” Your Faithful Friend, Jonathan A.

Comment by Jonathan Alburger — November 2, 2008 @ 5:17 pm

Thanks, Bill, for painting such a beautiful word picture of Reef for those of use who did not get the chance to know him. I enjoyed watching him come to life on canvas as Sue’s work progressed. I can just see the two of you wandering around the beaches and hills. I know Reef’s experiencing life greatly enhanced your enjoyment of life. And he is probably saying to you now, “Heel, Bill! Heel”
Love, Janice

Comment by Janice Donley — November 3, 2008 @ 9:50 am

REEF’s partners Bill and Hazel have been dear friends for many years. From the first time I met REEF my thought was that these three belong togather. Because REEF lived in paridise my visits often included trips to the beaches and beautiful parks along the Central Coast. REEF enjoyed every trip even more then I did, though he wasn’t sure about having to give up his usual place in the car for the “new guy”. Ray Bradbury once said that “some dogs think every day is Christmas”. I’m sure he was thinking of REEF. Life is purely a gift. JoeDon

Comment by Don Flegal — November 5, 2008 @ 10:28 am

I have so many memories of Reef that it is difficult to put them all in words. When you get the pleasure and joy of knowing and trying to train such a magnificient creature it renders one speechless. Reef was a wonderful companion and for sure had his own agenda which kept all of us hopping. From the early days of puppyhood, chewing everything he could get his teeth into to his latter days as a mature dog, still spinning in place for that treat that was always at hand. Reef and I had a lot of fun together, whether we were walking the hills of Garcia Road or later on at Alice Keck park. He always knew where and what he wanted to do and after years of his human training I just let him take the lead. I guess if there is one thing that will always make me smile about the little guy was the way he would stomp his foot when he decided that he did not like the direction things were going. That one little gesture would let his human know that things needed to be changed right away. I will sorely miss him as I do the dogs I have loss. The sorrow will lighten but never fully goes away.
Sue, the potrait is so realistic it brings tears to my eyes. Thank you for the beautiful work.
Aunt Carole

Comment by Carole Kenzel — November 10, 2008 @ 10:50 am

Very touching story and the portrait looks great! Did you by chance see this news Winner of ‘dream’ animal shelter clashes with Zootoo? http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/2009-04-12-zootoo-shelter-clash_N.htm

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